Thursday, June 28, 2012

One down. 26 More!


  1. Finish my Masters!!!!
  2. Save a six figures (or higher if possible, hahaha!!!) in my bank account.
  3. Pay off all my credit card debt!!!!
  4. Get promoted (how I wish!!! *God, You know what I'm praying for right now...)
  5. Buy a lot (a house is a plus!)
  6. Bake a cake or cupcake :)
  7. Cook a real food
  8. Learn to drive (grrrr....and have a drivers license)
  9. Finish reading a book
  10. Run in a marathon
  11. Lose 5-10 lbs
  12. Go to Boracay (yes, I haven't been there!)
  13. Travel overseas (oh yeah!!!)
  14. Stroll Lyka (our dog) in the park
  15. Donate to a charity
  16. Finish a 9-day mass (a novena or simbang gabi)
  17. Walk across San Juanico Bridge
  18. Never be late again for work!
  19. Wear a boots in an ordinary day, haha!
  20. Purchase a jewelry
  21. Visit an old friend I haven't seen for a long time
  22. Attend mass every Sunday :)
  23. Have a confession
  24. Go to beach early morning (yey!!!! sunrise!!!)
  25. NO to RICE for dinner (gulp....for a year????)
  26. Continue blogging :)
  27. Get married!!! (hahaha....well, I put this last since this is one thing I can't control and could only wish for.. hehe!!)
Just finished today the nine-day novena mass at Sto. Nino Parish. Whew! I can say that there were challenges in between this nine days - a conflict with a sibling, a confrontation with a friend, and a sudden death by a close relative.  But it didn't stop me from attending the mass. The more that it pushed me to be there. But it also made me realize to be unselfish and not only pray for my own desires. 

Anyway, I do hope that "whatever" it is that I have been praying so hard this past nine days will be realized. Please. :) And I'm also hoping that my life will be back to normal. Normal as in at peace. Normal as in happier. 

Thank you God for being so great! That despite my imperfections, I am blessed and loved. Without You, I am nothing. 

Flashback Friday: Barkada :)

"There are big ships and small ships.  But the best ship of all is friendship." - Anonymous

It doesn't really matter how many friends you have as long as when you are in your lowest point your few real friends are there to stick with you. You are truly blessed if you found these people. As for me, I'm thankful to have Kristel, Roselyn, and Armme with me for eleven wonderful years! Well, Rose and I have have been friends since elementary days but it was only in second year high school that our friendship, together with Telay and Arms, "formally" started. Naks!

Our friendship is like being in a rollercoaster ride. There are ups and downs. But definitely, the ride is so worth it! There may be tears sometimes but the laughter and joy of being with them is priceless. They are like my second family wherein I can be myself and say anything what's on my mind. With us, there is no pretension and competition (wow rhyming!haha!) 

I've dated several boys and jerks (aw kay damo, basta more than one, hehe) but these girls have remained with me. Forever na toh!!! :) We have seen seen each other grow, been happy with each other's accomplishments, been a witness in every heartbreak and struggles, and shared dreams to each other. I just can't imagine a life without them (oh dba parang romantic ang dating..hehe..but it's the truth!) I can't imagine myself growing old without them.. just like my family. 

We've seen a lot of concerts together, drink beers, had movie marathon, talked endlessly, overnights and travels, prayed together, gained few pounds, straighten or curled our hairs, laugh and made fun of each other, settle arguments, videoke, etc, etc... We've made a lot of memories and I know that there's more in store for us in the next days. We may not see each other that much compared before but I know that we will always be there for each other. 

ang papayt nyo teh! arms sorry if i posted this, haha! peace!

pansinin ang hair! uso ba ang straight??? :)

oh dba di halatang nag away hours before, hehehe!

bloopers but worth it! who would have thought that we can hike Hanginan (Maasin, So, Leyte) in  4 hours!!! 

the friends that pray together, stays together!

ocho! favorite resto. sarad! favorite appetizer!

yummmeeee!!!!

picture with the toyo and suka!

picture with the bato!

estudyante no more!

red lips lang ang peg!

annual christmas get together.

d halatang broken hearted ako dito. happy independence day to me at that time!

d halatang mga lasing!

masahe!

happy 10th year - 2011.

kahit duty gow!

at naka toga talaga dapat!


Our friendship may have been longer than most relationships is (bf-gf bah!) but it is not definitely fight-free. Our differences may have test us but I know that time has strengthen our bond. I miss you Tels, Rose, and Arms! I hope that we can make time to date more often nah! :)) Labshu girls!

Monday, June 25, 2012

Make each day count. The Superwoman in us.

Have you ever had the feeling that you are the worst person ever? As if everything you do is wrong and you can't do anything right? And you begin to wonder who you really are.


Sometimes I think that I know myself too well already. Then all of a sudden people will let me doubt of that belief. I know that I haven't been good at times but that doesn't make me a bad person. There are so many things as well that I have regret doing especially those that have caused pain to others. But I'm the kind of person who's never afraid to admit my mistake. I'm not sure though if it's positive or what :) What I know is that I don't want to be in bad terms with anyone especially if it involves someone I care about. I freak out if I found out that someone hates me or at least hated something I did. I worry easily and cry myself to sleep. I don't know, I guess I'm a pleaser often times. I would really make it a point to apologize 'coz I don't want to be carrying a burden everyday knowing that I hurt someone. Though it's scary to ask for forgiveness for you might be rejected but, really, it can lighten our hearts and minds. It may be so important to be forgiven but it's not up to us anymore. What is necessary is we have sincerely apologize and never do it again. Hopefully.

Lately, so many things happened that made me assess who I really am and if I like who I am. Well, I love myself (hehe, of course we all do love ourselves!) but there are some things that need to be changed. I should be more understanding and caring of everyone around me - regardless of status or background. I should try to be more optimistic and stop worrying (the priest yesterday said in his homily that 92% of our worries did not actually happened). I should smile more often and let go of bad vibes as I wake up each day. I should make each day count. I should value relationships more. I should be more responsible for everything has consequences. I should believe in myself more and have faith in God all the time. I should step out of my comfort zone in order to grow. I should be honest with myself and to others. I should always try to inject happiness in my life and in others as well. And I should LOVE myself and LOVE living :))
Whew! I'm no superwoman but I believe that in every woman lies strength, courage, resilience and grace that makes her one. It's all about conquering your fears and surprising yourself  that you can actually do the one thing that you thought you can't do! C'mon..let's surprise ourselves! We are bound for great things :) It's only the first step that's hard but once we take that step...we're not aware that we are already walking...then running....then hopping... haha, I'm not sure anymore if I'm still making sense here. What I'm trying to say is we are equipped with "superpowers" that can make us Superwoman. It's up to us if we will unleash those powers or just allow them to rut inside of us. Don't you want to fly and make a difference? I know you do. So start unleashing those powers and fight all the way till you get what YOU are destined for! :))

Friday, June 22, 2012

Flashback Friday: Bacolod

October 20-23, 2011

This was actually my second time in Bacolod. The first time was last 2007 where I spent overnight for a job interview. The moment I stepped in the place, I wished that Tacloban was like the City of Smiles - urban yet the probinsiya feel is there, surrounded by friendly people with amusing accent (hehe..), and clean even though there are a lot of establishments around. I told myself that the place is so livable! I haven't been able to tour much that time but I was hoping that I could go back.

Fast forward 2011. My Ilonggo boyfriend, Ian, who hails from Bacolod (yey!!! lucky me!!! pancit canton, harhar!) brought me there. You know, to meet his family (aherm...) and to tour the city. What we usually did was eat, eat, eat!!! :) Why? The foods are delicious and priced reasonably! No day passed by that my tummy was not full and happy :))  Even Ian's father cooks good especially his bakereta... Now when can I taste it again? Hmmmm... :)

Below are the must-see places (at least to me) in Bacolod to visit and eat (food again!!!):

21st Lacson Street, Bacolod City

The place is actually intimidating at first because the interiors look sosyal and most customers, well, look sosyal too! Hehe.. so I was quite surprised to find out that their foods are really affordable. We ate Batchoy since it's merienda that time and I won't leave Bacolod without eating it!! Haha...

According to their website, Batchoy is a native noodle soup garnished with strips of pork & beef, crushed pork cracklings, spring onions, fried garlic, liver and bone marrow. 

Aboy's Restaurant
Golden Field, Bacolod City

This is where we celebrated the birthday of Ian's mother. The food were ok :) But the place is so big that I think it is customized for big groups. I would guess that this is where families or tourists usually eat. Their menu is very Pinoy. One memorable thing in this resto was they served a tea after the meal (so you won't be guilty after eating a lot! Haha!!) The tea came from their own garden and it really tasted good.
This is not in Aboy's but is actually situated in Golden Field as well. 
Aida's Chicken
Manokan Country, Bacolod City

The best dining experience during my trip!!!!!!! (convinced? ang daming exclamation point kaya! haha!!) I ate with my bare hands because that's how it's supposed to be right??? :)

Before actually going to Bacolod, I checked the internet on where are the best places to eat. Almost every site recommended Aida's for the chicken inasal. Hello, your trip is not complete without trying the authentic chicken inasal right??? :) So there we went even though my tummy is about to burst..haha!!!  Of all the stalls in the manokan country, Aida's was full packed. The place was neat and colorful. And the food??? Omg, I was in heaven when I tasted their inasal paired with garlic rice (haha...I so wanna go back there right now!!!) Next time I'm gonna try their talaba!!! :)

Bob's Restaurant
This restaurant has actually a lot of outlets in the city. But we ate at their Robinson's outlet. This is the place to go if you're craving for pasta, burger, or nachos and you're with friends. Or if you just want to hang out you can actually go to their Cafe Bob's which has a nicer, relaxing ambience.

Anyway, the foods are quite pricey BUT it's really worth it! I especially recommend the fruit punch and burger.


Calea
Lacson St., Bacolod City

I first heard of Calea from my boardmate who raves about their cakes. So I told Ian if we could go there for dessert after 21 and Aida's (my tummy still has this little room for sweets, haha) I find the place so cute and adorable! The place was packed when we got there and I got dizzy with all the cakes and pastries I was seeing, hahaha!!! Mind you, they were all affordable unlike the ones you eat at a coffee shop.

Since we couldn't decide which cake to eat.. we bought six slices of different cakes as take out (Oreo cheesecake, sans rival, etc..gosh, next time I should take pictures of everything I will eat during a travel so I won't forget, haha!!!). Lucklily for us, we were able to grab a seat so we decided to have a bite and drink. YUM, YUM, YUM! Good thing for us too since we spotted some PBA players. Picture agad!

Lopue's San Sebastian
Being a Coke collector, he showed me this mini museum of different memorabilia.

New Government Center
Bacolod boasts of its new and beautiful government center (city hall). Since it was Masskara Festival, there were floating objects (sorry, I forgot the exact term, lol!) in their huge fountain. Ian told me that every year they would have a different concept. Such a nice idea talaga to utilize their fountain into a parade of creativity :)

Provincial Capital Lagoon
How I wished that the lagoon is cleaner :( 'coz it's already a landmark in Bacolod. It was actually the first time I saw a public lagoon with koi..maraming kois!!! Basta mga fish!!! :) Amazing talaga!

Negros Museum
This museum was not only full of dolls from different countries but has a rich history as well. :)

Organic Farm
Yes, they sell foods made of organic ingredients only. Sadly, I wasn't able to taste their foods (other than this halo-halo) since it was way past lunch time when we got there and they have nothing to offer anymore...hahaha... Ganun sila ka sikat dun! Ubos agad ang food! Employees from nearby restaurants would usually eat there. Healthy na, namit pa!

Pope John Paul II Tower
Reclamation Area near SM City

This is a 9-storey building dedicated to the loved Pope John Paul II. Each floor showcases stories and photos of the pope. Climbing the stairs may have been tiring but it was all worth it 'coz the view from the roof deck is priceless. Aside from that, going there has proved me how spiritual and religious we Filipinos are. :)



Caribbean Water Park and Resort
Golden Field, Bacolod City

Bacolod may be more known for its foods but they also offer a number of resorts within and outside the city. One of the most popular is the Caribbean. It is a pirate-themed water park with shallow pools complete with water slides, pirate ship, treasure chests, and mushroom showers. For more info, click this link.

There are so many things I like about this water park. It's affordable. Food is allowed. The slides are exhilarating! And it's such a cool place. Period. :) I may be bias here but I like it more compared to Splash Island (although Splash offers more slides and is bigger...but Caribbean is cooler and better maintained).
The Ruins
Talisay City

Though The Ruins is not located in Bacolod, still your Bacolod trip is incomplete without going there. Do I still need to explain??? :)

It was actually late in the afternoon when we got there thus the "dark" pictures. On a more positive note, we were able to witness the sunset :)

The place was scary at first. But it became majestic and romantic after. The place has a charm I can't explain. It's a perfect setting for a pre-nup pictorial, hehe!

Touristy pictures at the Silay airport and mall.



All in all, I HAD A BLAST! Ian's family were very welcoming.They were all nice :)) It was also my first time to watch in a 3D cinema. I was also amazed with the packaging of Bongbong's (the popular pasalubong center in Bacolod). The roads are wide (although they are not that strict with jaywalking, hehe!) Truly Bacolod is very livable and lovable! :)

There are still a lot of places I wanna visit the next time I get there. There's the Pala-pala, Mambukal, Balay Negrense, among others. Gosh, I can't wait to breathe the sweet air of Negros again. :))