Tuesday, September 11, 2012

25 More!


Yey! I finally did it! I finally had the chance to join a fun run/marathon! Thank you Powerade for sponsoring this event! I managed to finish the 5k marathon for over an hour by walking/jogging/running, hahaha! I was so excited the night before that I wasn't able to sleep well. Thankfully, I did not faint during the whole run! Haha! More to come I hope. The feeling that you get after crossing the finish line is just pure joy! Naks!!! 

*gosh! 25 more and i barely had a year left to accomplish my list....waaaaaaaaahhhhhhhhh!


with coach Rio :)


  1. Finish my Masters!!!!
  2. Save a six figures (or higher if possible, hahaha!!!) in my bank account.
  3. Pay off all my credit card debt!!!!
  4. Get promoted (how I wish!!! *God, You know what I'm praying for right now...)
  5. Buy a lot (a house is a plus!)
  6. Bake a cake or cupcake :)
  7. Cook a real food
  8. Learn to drive (grrrr....and have a drivers license)
  9. Finish reading a book
  10. Run in a marathon
  11. Lose 5-10 lbs
  12. Go to Boracay (yes, I haven't been there!)
  13. Travel overseas (oh yeah!!!)
  14. Stroll Lyka (our dog) in the park
  15. Donate to a charity
  16. Finish a 9-day mass (a novena or simbang gabi)
  17. Walk across San Juanico Bridge
  18. Never be late again for work!
  19. Wear a boots in an ordinary day, haha!
  20. Purchase a jewelry
  21. Visit an old friend I haven't seen for a long time
  22. Attend mass every Sunday :)
  23. Have a confession
  24. Go to beach early morning (yey!!!! sunrise!!!)
  25. NO to RICE for dinner (gulp....for a year????)
  26. Continue blogging :)
  27. Get married!!! (hahaha....well, I put this last since this is one thing I can't control and could only wish for.. hehe!!)

Thursday, September 6, 2012

Post Break-Up

I often hear celebrities who just went a break-up say, "Now I finally have more time with my self, with my family and friends! I can finally pursue my passions now!" Well, something like that. My point is, this does not only happens to celebrities but to average Joe's and Jane's as well. After a break-up we would finally found ourselves having more time to spend with people we used to take for granted before and pursue the dreams we used to postponed. Why? Do relationships (romantic relationships I mean..bf-gf, bf-bf, gf-gf, no discrimination here, hehe) create a world wherein it's only you and your partner that exist? Do relationships absorb most of the lovers' time that they don't have time to mingle with other people anymore? Do relationships occupy most of your planning since you always have to consider your partner's feelings? Do relationships stop you from doing things you love doing on your own? Well, if it does...then relationships suck!!! But why do majority of the people still prefers to be committed than to be single? I guess we all know the answer to that. It feels good to love and be loved. Period. If you're still not convinced... being in a (monogamous) relationship allows you to feel secured and really happy. Don't get me wrong, you can still be secured and happy when you're single but it's different when you're in a relationship. At the end of your stressful day, your partner is there willing to listen to your crappy stories while he's hugging you (aawww...). Come on, it's a different kind of euphoria when you're in love!!! :) But being in love can sometimes feel like you're on drugs. It can make you feel so "high" and traps you from living in reality. This is when the problem sets in. 

Unconsciously, one tend to spend most of their time with their partners. Some may even invite their boyfriends, lets say, to a girls night out! Or vice-versa. Chores are put on hold because bf is too busy talking over the phone to gf. Jobs/studies are sacrificed because gf is constantly texting bf. Emergency dates with girlfriends are sacrificed because schedules will be checked first if it's not their nth monthsary. Hey, I'm no exception here. I'm also guilty at times that's why I've been doing a lot of thinking lately on how to balance my life and priorities - God, family, boyfriend, friends, work, school, ME time, etc....

Indeed it's about setting your priorities and self-management. We don't need a break-up to realize that we have friends and family. We don't have to wait to be single before we can finally do our long overdue bucket lists. We can do it even if we're committed. I believe that a balanced,FULL life is achievable. It's important that you and your partner have an open communication on how you will set your priorities other than your relationship. It's also essential to be open-minded that your partner's life doesn't just revolve on you... to trust your partner that even though you're not together most of the time you don't constantly check on him/her (paranoid??? haha!!)... to support each other's endeavors... to understand each other's setbacks, shortcomings and lapses... to respect each other's differences, time with other people... to put God in the center of your relationship... 

And...enjoy the relationship.. love each other sincerely... be sensitive of each other's needs... have a good laugh always... do something new together... do something you both love doing together... enjoy your quiet moments... be intimate (it's up to you what intimate means, haha!)... be there especially during trying times of your partner... pray together... 

I talk too much!!! Haha!!! I just wanna share what I've learned from experiences but that doesn't make me an expert on love & relationships... I'm still learning too :)

Have a nice day people! :)

Wednesday, September 5, 2012

14 Key Decorating Stategies | Yahoo! Shine

Got this from Yahoo! Shine which I think originally comes Sunset. I especially love the home ideas since it embodies the owners' personalities. Check it out!

Strategy No. 1: Choose pieces with meaning

When Jason and Jill Williams hired a firm to design their home, they clearly stated that the theme was "sparse."They did not intend to buy things to simply fill the house; they wanted to acquire pieces over time that had meaning, complemented their lifestyle, and reflected their personalities.While the theme was "sparse," sleek and modern wasn't their design choice. Instead, they mixed furniture styles with rustic, stained, and painted finishes. Every piece serves a purpose, and each can be used in different ways for years to come.

Strategy No. 2: Layer color and texture

The clean design of this blue and white kitchen is layered with pops of energetic color. The red drum pendant from Croft & Little illuminates the bamboo island top from Teragren.Glass-front cabinets provide a showcase for colorful pottery.The bamboo-topped table on casters tucks under the island and can roll away for use throughout the house or outside. Mixing up the chair styles adds casual appeal.

Strategy No. 3: Design for gathering

Family rooms are gathering places that should exude a relaxed style and communicate warmth and playfulness.Perhaps the most important consideration for such an active room is how to keep the space's flow while noting its separate areas. Color, furniture placement, and area rugs can help meet this goal.Here, a U-shaped seating area encourages conversation. Artifacts from family travels reflect the personalities of those who live here, while the fireplace and television anchor the space.


Strategy No. 4: Use practical items as accents

For most people, the kitchen is the hub around which family and friends revolve. It makes sense that the decor reflects the dwellers' tastes and interests.Decorative accents give any kitchen a personal touch. These include practical pieces such as rugs and furniture, decorative pots, canisters, and cookbook libraries. Here, colorful, often-used items are grouped together for a visual display on top of an antique cabinet.

Strategy No. 5: Integrate workspaces

A home office can be carved out of the smallest of spaces.Here, office essentials are easily housed in the covered storage, on the floating shelf, and in the almost-hidden drawer of the work surface.

Strategy No. 6: Carry your style outdoors

"Outdoor areas are often the last to receive design attention, but they shouldn't be," says landscape designer Matt Lemos. "Plan space for your lifestyle by incorporating ample seating, table surfaces, cushions, play areas, eating spots, and sunning areas."By carrying your design style outdoors, you can turn a patio, deck, or even a balcony into another room of the house.This sleeping porch, a feature of many Craftsman houses, is updated with contemporary styling and weatherproof drapery and upholstery fabric.

Strategy No. 7: Create flow

Common colors and materials help connect your living spaces.Display signature pieces without too much fanfare. Try using one simple but dramatic floral stem or leaf in a chunky modern glass vase. In transitional areas, brushed nickel or silver works well for frames, accessories, and fixtures.

Strategy No. 8: Find a fabric you love

For designer Jennifer Hilgardner, the right fabric is one of the best ways to enhance an interior."Find a fabric you love," she says. "Choose a signature fabric with enough design elements so you can pull out colors, coordinate textures and have lots of options for furnishings and accessories."Here, green and blue accents in the fabric even play off the foliage outside.

Strategy No. 9: Smart art display

Include tall and low elements throughout the room to keep your eye moving. As a general rule, hang framed photos and art at eye level (or a bit higher if the ceilings are high). Keep in mind eye-level may be lower in a room designed for seating. Here, a lipstick-red wall sets off black-and-white photos and a mix of collected treasures.

Strategy No. 10: Create groupings

Displays of treasured and found items give guests a glimpse into your life and remind you of your history. A key to successful display is using a common denominator such as color, material, shape, or some other theme. Create small groupings throughout the room.  And remember, less is more. Don't clutter your display by trying to showcase everything. Instead, rotate cherished items often for added interest.

Strategy No. 11: Create a grid

Use a common color scheme and a grid of frames to unite children’s drawings and other artwork for a singular display.You can add and subtract with the seasons and rearrange the grid.

Strategy No. 12: Try a unifying white

White walls provide a backdrop for the other elements of this house, and they're easy to live with for the long run.The furnishings here are equally crisp and informal. Accessories play off these neutrals.

Strategy No. 13: Dramatic backdrop

A black-and-white palette sets a dramatic and flexible backdrop for family photos and accessories. Here, a glossy chocolate-brown accent wall sets off the translucent candleholders and simple white candles. Lean multiple frames of various sizes against a wall for a casual collage effect.

Strategy No. 14: Keep it clean and flexible

Designer Francesca Harris believes in collections rather than single objects. "Collections have impact," she says. The use of mass-market frames and mats gives her the freedom to swap photos in and out, and keeps her displays from feeling too precious.

When To Keep Fighting And When To Walk Away | Thought Catalog

How timely that I came across this article from Thought Catalog today. There are times in every relationship wherein it will be tested and we will find ourselves asking if it's time to let go or continue fighting. Most of the time it is still really worth fighting for. It's just sad whenever a pet peeve is the common cause of arguments. These little things can cause so much trouble when unsettled. We always have to remember that no one is perfect and time and time again a rift is going to happen but the future of our relationship relies in knowing how to respond and weighing what it is that really matters to us. 

May this article save your relationship from future damages :)




There are times when an emotionally taxing situation reaches a crossroads, leaving us to make a difficult, life-altering decision. When we are weathered and exhausted with a relationship, questions will begin to arise. You’ll debate whether you’re doing the right thing by persistently attempting to making a seemingly defective connection function properly — or if severing ties is the best option. There’s typically not a well-defined side to lean toward. They both have pros and cons. The testing part is evaluating your specific scenario and making a difficult call. So first you must identify what your dilemma is and recognize the difference between fixable and unsalvageable.

Impractical expectations
One thing that’s certain is we can’t realistically expect perfection. Strive for it? Absolutely — but don’t get panic-stricken when your flawless hopes get a blemish. No two people possess an argue-free relationship. There seems to be a common theory these days that it’s ‘perfection or bust’ — but that’s a formula for failure because the going will get tough, and you can’t just get going. Well, you can — but you probably shouldn’t just throw in the towel every single time things aren’t all rainbows and butterflies. When it comes to arguing and button pushing, embrace the inevitability of it all.

Fussing and fighting
Does your significant other get upset every time you leave the TV on overnight or show up five minutes late? That’s solvable — turn the freakin’ TV off before bedtime and be punctual. Does your lover get angry every time you leave the house, period, or take longer than five minutes to text back? That might be a little less curable. The arguments spawned by trivial pet peeves and requests for common courtesy can be resolved by making a conscious effort to accommodate someone you care for. It’s so insignificant in the big picture, but if it makes them happy — why not? As for extremely jealous, controlling situations — those typically aren’t going to end well, so walking (or even briskly jogging) away isn’t necessarily a bad idea.

There’s the other side to these disputes. If you’re going to be with someone — anyone — you’re going to have to accept his or her flaws and habits that you aren’t necessarily a fan of. Unless you want to date yourself (AKA be alone), you’ll have to acquire a little thing called “patience.” You can’t buy it in stores — although going to the DMV on a Monday morning or Walmart during holiday season are great way to strengthen it.

In a healthy relationship it’s give or take, and neither person should be limited to performing one without the other. If he/she starts showing up five minutes early or being on time, let their forgetfulness to turn off the TV slide. When there’s a simple lack of patience, fight to improve and accept. A deep love shouldn’t end because of minute annoyances. The annoyance leads to anger, the anger leads to arguments, and the arguments serve as a rusty knife, slowly cutting through the connection. If it’s strong enough, it’ll survive the strain and eventually be unaffected by the cuts, but the weaker links will be severed.

Distance: literal and metaphorical
Sometimes complications can arise, especially during long distance relationships. But it doesn’t require physical miles apart to feel distant from someone. Many are familiar with what it’s like to be down the street, or even living with someone — yet feeling completely disconnected. It’s one of the most emotionally challenging feelings a lover can have, and it truly wears you out.

These are unique, case-by-case situations. Are there temporary circumstances placing a tangible or figurative distance between you and your other half? If it’s impermanent, it may be worth waiting out or concocting a temporary solution for, to ease that void and close the gap. When the distance will be there for the foreseeable future, that’s when you must decide if it’s worth the wait. The uncertainty of a payoff is enough to make many wave the white flag, but if a couple manages to persevere through the winds of change, they’re guaranteed to develop a strength that few possess.

How you feel most of the time
When the bad outweighs the good, when the stress is constant, the arguments habitual and the weight of the burden being carried is too heavy — it may be time to walk away. A person who feels unhappy everyday, with the inability to do anything about it shouldn’t continue to be miserable. We must take care of ourselves, because ultimately it’s nobody else’s obligation to. It’s nice to have others invested in our well being, but we can’t always expect it. The person you’re with should give you feelings of pleasure the majority of the time, with those not-so-satisfied occasions coming here and there.

This dilemma isn’t necessarily restricted to daters and couples. Brothers and sisters, children and parents — any group of people who care for each other, but can’t seem to have a (mostly) loving connection face this decision. Sometimes it’s simply unhealthy to oneself to continue taking part in a cancerous relationship. When the rainy days outnumber the sunny ones, and the pain is excruciating more often than not — turn around, and put one foot in front of the other until you’ve walked far away. If it’s someone you love, but simply struggle to get along with regularly, work out the kinks. The misconception that we should be willing to meet someone we love halfway isn’t enough; let’s be prepared to meet all the way at their location. Two people willing to put in 100% over 50/50 will have a significantly stronger balance, and a likeliness to fight through, not walk away. 


Saturday, September 1, 2012

Cheesiness Overload

Who says you can't be cheesy at 25?!?! Haha! Thank you Teens Can Relate! for these quotes. I can totally relate with you guys :))