This is actually a fun way to discover myself! Haha! Well, I've searched
the Internet on what they can say about my sign. Friends, please confirm if
these are true :)
Traditional Virgo Traits:
1.
Modest and Shy
2.
Meticulous and Reliable
3.
Practical and Diligent
4.
Intelligent and Analytical
I would have to say that these traits are 95% true!
:)
On the Dark Side:
1.
Fussy and a Worrier
2.
Overcritical and Harsh
3.
Perfectionist and Conservative
Well...90% true??? Ok, fine!!! 95% true too! Haha!
From Zodiac Sign Astrology:
Virgo Strength
Keywords:
- Analytical
- Observant
- Helpful
- Reliable
- Precise
Yes, I know I'm a sensitive person, very observant
of the things around me.
Virgo Weakness
Keywords:
- Skeptical
- Fussy
- Inflexible
- Cold
- Interfering
Confirmed! I can be grumpy and stubborn at times!
But that doesn't make me a bad person, ok? Hehe! I do get upset easily but it
will pass by quickly too!
Virgo and
Independence:
Virgo is a very independent
zodiac sign. They are fully able to put their
intelligence to use and get things done for themselves. It is possible
however that their narrow mindedness causes their creativity to
suffer and they may lead regular routine lives. They may
dwell too much on the past and over complicate things and
this may limit their ability to move forward and confuse themselves. In
conclusion, Virgos are able to be independent but the less evolved types will
have difficult if someone is not there helping them to achieve more and not be
so critical of themselves.
I'm guilty of thinking too much and complicating
things in the process. Not proud of this though. I'm just glad of my parents
for their never ending support and faith in me, for the patience and
understanding of my boyfriend, and for my friends who accept me for who I
really am. Every day I try to remind myself to loosen up and just live a
beautiful life!
Virgo and Friendship:
People look up to Virgo for friends
because they are straight thinkers and solve problems logically. They are truthful, loyal and
determined. Some people might find them cold or emotionally
detached because they live in their minds, not in their emotions
and feelings. It might be hard to pin down how a Virgo friend is feeling
because they easily live in denial. A person who is able to read deep into
another person will notice when Virgo is not well but if they confront them
about it, they would rather retreat then talk about it. It is best to keep your
emotional distance from a Virgo friend unless they open up to you first. Virgo
might try to analyze and control a friend's life but only with the idea that
they will improve their life, not purely for the sake of controlling. Be
patient with your Virgo friend and understand that their recommendations are
only to make your life better.
Now this got me thinking... I can say that I'm a
good and loyal friend. Though I may have done some things (unintentionally I
hope) that have caused pain in my friends... I try to be the true friend that I
should be. I genuinely love my friends especially my closest friends (you know
who you are!!!) and I always wish them the best. I'm in pain when they're hurt
and so happy when they're in a blissful state. Being with friends is one of the
best times since I can be who I really am when I'm with them. Even though I'm
not saying a word, they can feel my sadness or happiness. Friends are one of
the best gifts one could ever have so it's just appropriate to take care of
these gifts... I just can't imagine my life without them.
Virgo and Business:
Virgos are very intelligent, they have an excellent memory
and a highly analytical mind. This makes them good investigators
and researchers. They also have the ability to probe into a person's emotions
and they can often see into people and detect what their motives are. This
makes them great policemen or interrogators. Virgos are very good at
problem solving, this is what they do best. They are confronted with a problem,
they will pick apart the pieces and put it together in the proper order. They
are rational thinkers and are good at settling other people's
disputes and putting them on the right track for reconciliation. Any position
that requires the above features, which is a very long list, is perfect for the
Virgo. They keep the world in order.
Naks naman!!! Intelligent talaga, ha! Haha!! But I
admit, being "smart" (hey, all of us are in one way or another)
doesn't excuse me from making stupid mistakes. How I wish I could really say to
myself that I'm a good problem solver. Yes I would like to believe that I'm a
rational thinker but I can be impulsive too which leads me at times in
situations wherein I will regret later. Tsk,tsk, tsk... It is in my prayer
always that God will bless my decisions and purify my intentions... and that He
will grant me wisdom. Everyday we are faced in a situations wherein we need to
choose and decide so it is a must to pray for guidance.
As to being a good investigator... hmmm... getting
there! Haha!!! I like looking for answers and analyzing things so that I'll
have a better understanding of people and things.... Hmmm...
Virgo Temperament:
Before a Virgo plunges into anything,
from a problem to a vacation idea, they need to analyze all the facts and
know all the details before they plunge in and make a decision. This makes them
seem indecisive and slow. Virgo's perception is their
reality, more so then other astrology signs. What they believe is what will be,
if they have a negative outlook on life, things will present themselves to be
negative and they will be very moody and isolated/detached. If they are
positive, the same events that occur will be held in a positive light and they
will be a pleasant, well adjusted person. A Virgo mind is a
very powerful mind and they must have the proper attitude for their life to be
happy and successful. Virgo needs to get in touch with their feelings,
this is why they usually seem cold or detached. They are very prone of living
in denial. They will say the feel okay or everything is alright even
when it's not. This is an easy way out, the one thing that Virgo
does not like to analyze is their feelings so pretending everything is okay is
a good defense mechanism for not having to take a closer look at their
feelings. Virgo has an unpredictable and sometimes unstable
temperament.
So now you know that at
times I have this "attitude." Another trait I'm not proud of! Tsk,
tsk, tsk... How I really wish that I won't take life so seriously! You know...just
let go of all the negatives and absorb all the positives instead! Yes, a mind
is a powerful mind...that's why we should only store the good things in our
head...make it a happy place for us to have a happy life!
Virgo Deep Inside:
They need to be organized in their mind, sometimes
all their energy is taken from organizing their mind that they have a difficult
time organizing their surroundings. They easily look too deep into an issue and
over analyze what they percept. Virgo is ambitious and strives to always know
more and have more. This is in their eternal quest to bring order to chaos.
Even if order is obtained from an outsiders' point of view, Virgo will not be
settled for they have a very active mind that is always thinking and can never
be silenced. Virgos want to be of use, they need to be important and essential
to everyone in their lives and in everything they do. Virgo's major life lesson
is to learn to trust in and have faith in the unknown. They have to understand
that things in life happen for a reason that is not always known to them, they
do not have to always know everything. They need to learn to calm down and not
over-analyze a situation or event. Deep inside, Virgo is very sensitive and
they need to be appreciated for all the things they do. When is Virgo is
offended or hurt, they may never show it.
Virgo in a Nutshell:
Virgo exists in the mind, everything is inside. To
the world, Virgo presents a calm and collected exterior but on the inside,
nervous uncontrolled intensity in the mind, trying to figure things out, how to
improve everything, analyzing and thinking. Virgo can tire itself out without
even moving! Virgo has a constant drive to improve and perfect, this can lead
to extreme pickiness and finickiest. They are pure, their motives are honest
never malicious and they want to accomplish something.
Wow! Believing in zodiac sign may not be a good thing for my religion...but just for fun I did this... Reading the entries about Virgo is like seeing myself in a mirror... Coincidence??? But it kinda reflects who I am. It reminded me again of my flaws and my strengths and how could I use them to good use. Yes, it's true that my mind is always working but it's about time to put these thoughts into actions. It's about time also to stop thinking TOO MUCH and just live happily day by day... Things may sometimes don't turn out the way we expect them to be... but hey Darleen, CHILL! You're not the worst person ever... you can still correct your mistakes and try not to let it happen again... and go on with your life... (Hey, I'm talking to myself already...haha!!! Seriously...I'm sincere on wanting to live a worry-free life...*fingers crossed*)
Virgo Love, Sex and
Relationships
What it's like to
date a Virgo Woman:
A Virgo woman is earthly and she may seem cold and
detached, but underneath the timid, reserved surface lies the real woman, a
strong, passionate woman with a great capacity for strong devoted love. She
will play hard to get, she is hard to get for she is worried about exposing her
emotional vulnerabilities and getting hurt. She requires patience and you will
have to court her and work hard to impress her. Once she is in love, it is for
the long term. She will be devoted, loyal and make you very happy and even put
a little order in your life. Virgo woman is conservative and old fashioned, a
typical woman who is perfect for the man who loves a challenge and likes to
take a relationship slow.
I can say that my perception towards love and relationship has evolved through the years. But one thing has remained the same, that I'm still a believer in forever that's why I'm in it for the long term. Maybe when I was younger I was curious that's why it was easy for me to be in a relationship and eventually end it if I find something bad about the guy, haha! Mean girl!!! That's me being rational... If I can't see myself anymore being with the guy then I called it quits! But we are not exempted in making stupid decisions and getting hurt. I was once gullible and foolish! Even though deep in my heart I know that things weren't right... I still went on hoping and thinking that things will change... But I thank God for intervening! He saved me from that messy relationship. The experience taught me to value myself and if no man can do that then he is not worthy of my love and commitment. I may not be the perfect nor the best girlfriend but I love sincerely, I'm a giver too... I'm not clingy (I believe, haha!)... Though I can be a little demanding, haha!!! But just because I put effort and time in the relationship. I'm in a position right now wherein I can honestly say that my heart is in a good, happy place :)
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